In case you haven’t heard, Mr. Clay Mills and I ran off to Jackson Hole and got married on a snowy day with the Grand Tetons peaking out from behind the clouds. It was perfect for us. We didn’t even know what day we would make our promises before God and the mountains, we just watched the sky. That low-key approach gave us a wonderful, still moment. We hope to continue that low-key wonderfulness with an intimate gathering of family and close friends to celebrate. We can’t wait to see your smiling faces on August 18, 2018, in Mike & Jackie Bortner’s beautiful garden. Yes, this gathering is a little short notice, but we haven’t done anything too normal yet—and we’re not about to start! Working creatives, you know… It’s a little harder to plan from a distance, so thank you for rolling with us! Most of the small details are on this page, like parking, places to stay, etc.. If you have other questions (you can use the contact form at the bottom of the page to send me an email) or if I think of more, I’ll add them here. See you soon!
A few slices of our life…
Garden Party Location: Michael & Jacqueline Bortner’s Garden, 155 West Springettsbury Avenue, York, PA 17403. Parking on Springettsbury and side streets is available during the weekend. If I have any updates to parking, you’ll find it here on this page. Link to address on google maps: https://goo.gl/maps/VKd6fRStVZJ2
Dress: I’ve got something pretty to wear and Clay has agreed to dress up a little. (Nashville leans a little to the casual side, so be comfortable!) And, if you like hats, please wear one!
Food: Hors d’oeuvres and more substantial options at your leisure, though I haven’t decided if the menu will be hot or cold. It can be mighty hot in August. Some gluten free options will be available. Some indulgent options will be there, too.
Entrance to the Garden: You may come through the side gate on Pershing Avenue, or through the front door on Springettsbury Avenue.
Rain: First of all, Trudi Metheny is praying, so it won’t likely rain; second of all, we’re renting a tent. We should stay dry if that should happen.
Drinks: We will have a bubbly toast later in the evening. There will be a few signature drinks and wine available with the bartender. A word: Uber operates in York.
RSVP: Please do so through the “Evite” Invitation by August 1, 2018—or, NOW if you haven’t yet and you know you’re coming! Option #2: If you are unable to respond through the invitation link for some reason, email me at: firstname.lastname@example.org Option #3: You can always call me, though, I’m forgetful, so try the first two options first! 717.676.2602
Gifts: We hesitate to even mention this, but if we put “No Gifts,” some of you will bring them anyway because of something good and deep and/or obliging inside of you. In truth, we need nothing but love and peace and time and your smiling faces…and love, did I mention that? I promise that is enough. However, if you’re the type who loves to bring a gift no matter what we say, then stop by Jackie’s new gift shop Kaletta’s on the corner of W. Philadelphia Street and TBA in York. It’s lovely! I think it’s important that we support each other’s endeavors. Or—and this is my favorite option—take some time before you arrive to write a “Love List” for us.
What’s a Love List, you ask? A few years ago, I spontaneously scribbled a rambling list of things/people/moments/memories/scents/sights/etc. that I love. It was a stream of consciousness activity, and I thought it was somehow important. We throw the word “love” around a lot, and I mean it whether I’m talking about my family or chocolate. We would love to know what you love. So, the part-time professor in me says you don’t even have to worry about punctuation. Just get the words out and give them a safe place to land. You can write what you love about being alive, or your family, or what you love about our friendship/relationship, or all the kinds of chocolate you love. No matter, we will love reading your “Love List.” It will be a treasure. We’ll have a jar or basket on a table on August 18th. I say we fill it up with everything we love.
Airport: BWI (Baltimore-Washington) is the easiest at about 1:15-1:30 drive on the highway.
MDT (Harrisburg International) is the closest; however, it’s a small airport, usually involves a connecting flight, and requires longer to get a car rental. MDT is in Middletown, PA, about a :45-1:00 drive without work traffic.
PHL (Philadelphia) is about 1:45-2:00 drive without traffic (which only happens in the middle of the night). Make sure you choose the turnpike route. It’s a fun city to visit, though, if you choose this airport.
There are no airport shuttles to York, PA, that I’m aware of, but it’s not a difficult trip.
York, PA, Accommodation Suggestions:
Grace Manor B & B: This is a dear friend’s AMAZING B & B in downtown York. Each room is a different theme. You should stay here if she has room!
Things to do:
Historical York: Did you know that York, PA, was the nation’s first capital (9 days)? There are a few beautiful historic buildings to visit downtown.
Heritage Rail Trail: bike, walk, run.
Gettysburg, PA, is a 45 minute drive. It’s a wonderful town to visit if you love Civil War history and antiquing.
Lancaster, PA, is a 30 minute drive. If you haven’t heard, it’s Amish Country…buggies, food, mall & boutique shopping, beautiful farmland. Whoopie pies…
Philadelphia is full of museums and historical sites well worth seeing if you haven’t been to the city. Don’t miss Reading Market for a Philly Cheese Steak.
Check back if you have any questions. I may be adding and tweaking this information as the evening gets closer. I’m my own worst editor. 🙂
See you then!
Karen & Clay Mills